Funeral poemsI will teach my boys to be dangerous men

I will teach my boys to be dangerous men

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Lucas Jones · 2024

I will teach my boys to be dangerous men

Lucas Jones · 2024

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Meaning

He lists what he will teach his sons: pick white flowers for your friends, think of patience when you think of strength, cry when your sister does. In a world where dangerous is ordinary, he says, the dangerous thing is to refuse to conform, and to choose love in spite of the rage.

Who's it for

A father remembered for gentleness being the brave choice. Right for a family who want his softness named as the courage it was.

Lucas Jones

British · Around 30 years old

Lucas Jones is an actor and a poet. He grew up in Huntingdon in a pentecostal family, moved house seven times before he was fourteen, and lives in London now. He started putting poems on the internet in 2023 and more than a million people follow him.

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