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Dead family visiting room

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Lucas Jones · 2024

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Dead family visiting room

Lucas Jones · 2024

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He is standing with somebody in a blue shirt, looking at the gap above the fridge where a shelf never went up. The man lists the things he meant to do, then says he was never here to be neat, he was here to make a mess. It closes on a life full of mistakes and a life full of heart.

Who's it for

Someone who was never tidy and was all heart. Right for a family who would rather laugh about the shelf than pretend it got done.

Lucas Jones

British · Around 30 years old

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Lucas Jones is an actor and a poet. He grew up in Huntingdon in a pentecostal family, moved house seven times before he was fourteen, and lives in London now. He started putting poems on the internet in 2023 and more than a million people follow him.

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