Flowers
Becky Hemsley
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The person who died lets their family off the anniversaries. You do not need the right date to miss me, they say, so buy flowers on a Thursday and think of me then.
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A family dreading the first birthday and the first anniversary. It hands back the obligation before anybody has to feel guilty about it.
Becky Hemsley
British
Becky Hemsley taught in primary schools before writing full time, and lives in Leicestershire. Six collections since 2021, two of them written entirely for grief. She gives around fifty of her poems away free on her own site.
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