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Joy, Shipmate, Joy!

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Walt Whitman · 1871

Joy, Shipmate, Joy!

Walt Whitman · 1871

Joy, shipmate, Joy! (Pleas'd to my soul at death I cry,) Our life is closed, our life begins, The long, long anchorage we leave, The ship is clear at last, she leaps! She swiftly courses from the shore, Joy, shipmate, joy.

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UpliftingFor an adventurerOutdoorsy Non-religious Plain English

Background

Whitman published it in 1871. He kept it in Leaves of Grass for the rest of his life, among the poems he gathered together under leaving and goodbyes.

Meaning

Dying is a ship finally casting off. The life you had is finished and the next thing has already started, and he is pleased about it.

Who's it for

A sailor, or anyone who was happiest setting off somewhere new. Right for a family who want something glad said out loud at the funeral.

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Life has loveliness to sell, All beautiful and splendid things,

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Crossing the Bar

Alfred, Lord Tennyson · 1889

Sunset and evening star, And one clear call for me!

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Someone who had a long life and was ready. Especially right for anyone who went to sea, or just loved being near it.

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Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep

Mary Elizabeth Frye · 1932

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I strove with none

Walter Savage Landor · 1849

I strove with none, for none was worth my strife. Nature I loved, and, next to Nature, Art;

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Requiem

Robert Louis Stevenson · 1887

Under the wide and starry sky, Dig the grave and let me lie.

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Trees

Joyce Kilmer · 1913

I think that I shall never see A poem lovely as a tree.

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A gardener, a farmer, or anyone who planted things that are still growing. It also fits a believer who found God outdoors rather than indoors.

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Warm Summer Sun

Robert Richardson · 1893

Warm summer sun, shine friendly here; Warm western wind, blow kindly here;

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Someone who died young, and a family who want something very short and very tender. Right where a longer reading would be more than anyone could manage.

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With rue my heart is laden

A. E. Housman · 1896

With rue my heart is laden For golden friends I had,

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A friend, which is the one it is really for, and anyone who died young. Right for someone who was good company and quick on their feet.

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Tell me not, in mournful numbers, Life is but an empty dream!

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Death, be not proud

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It is not growing like a tree

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It is not growing like a tree In bulk, doth make man better be;

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No coward soul is mine

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No coward soul is mine, No trembler in the world's storm-troubled sphere:

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On Death

Kahlil Gibran · 1923

For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun? And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?

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Prospice

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Fear death?--to feel the fog in my throat, The mist in my face,

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Someone who fought their illness all the way and wanted to know exactly what was happening. Also right for a person going back to a husband or wife who died first.

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She Is Gone

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A mother or a grandmother, and a family trying to turn back towards living. Right for someone who'd have wanted everyone to get on with it.

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When I go from hence

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When I go from hence let this be my parting word, that what I have seen is unsurpassable. I have tasted of the hidden honey of this lotus that expands on the ocean of light, and thus am I blessed—let this be my parting word.

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Someone grateful and curious, who found something holy without needing a church for it. Right for a person who reckoned they had had the better of the bargain.

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Death stands above me

Walter Savage Landor · 1853

Death stands above me, whispering low I know not what into my ear:

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A family who do not believe in anything particular and would rather not pretend they do. Right for someone who was not afraid at the end.

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Dirge Without Music

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I am not resigned to the shutting away of loving hearts in the hard ground. So it is, and so it will be, for so it has been, time out of mind:

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Epitaph on a Friend

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Invictus

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Robert Louis Stevenson · 1887

Under the wide and starry sky, Dig the grave and let me lie.

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